Hi lovelies, A large part of being who you are has to do with releasing the negativity others have that they push onto you. We all know the family member or coworker who has a disconcerting response to every positive one. Their stares, words, and even presence can weigh you down. You aren't responsible for their … [Read more...]
The Importance of a Support Group
Hi lovelies, Today I'm going to discuss the importance of having a support group. If you can't find a support group (or even if you can), I highly recommend becoming your own support group. Life can hit hard but the blows don't keep us down if we have a solid group of people who encourage and love us through … [Read more...]
Romancing the Romance Author
So you want to romance a romance author... Good luck. No really, good luck. We can be cynical or down right mushy--- both of which may be hard to take. There are a wide range of romance authors out there. I'm a dramatic, comedic, sarcastic one which is an odd combination in itself. If you want to impress us, you need … [Read more...]
Unveiling Author Stereotypes
Hello again, It seems any movie I watch that showcases a writer portrays them as a basket case, socially awkward, drunk, or erratic. So, I thought it was high time to divide the truths from the stereotypes. 1. Drunkards. We aren't all drunks. Actually, at least half the writers I associate with on a regular … [Read more...]
Suicide Prevention
More people commit suicide during the holidays than any other time of year. Reminders of family and friends, something a suicidal individual may lack, often worsen depression. Suicide strikes those we may least expect. The truth is suicidal people are not necessarily going to voice their contemplation of suicide: they … [Read more...]
Feathers from Heaven
The past several months I find feathers on a daily basis. Multiple feathers. Some are small and white, others are large black and brown feathers mixed with white. I may find them in my hair when I wake up in the morning, in the parking lot, on the side walk, by the pool, basically in every random place you could think … [Read more...]
Novel Locations for Authors
As an author, I tend to put Southern charm in my books. There have even been instances when I use British or French characters because of my background. This is a subconscious thing most of the time. Why do authors tend to keep to the same location when they write? Simply put, we know that area well and it is usually a … [Read more...]
Groupies & Alanis Morsette
Hi lovelies, As a female singer-songwriter, people usually have 2 thoughts when I'm at a gig: 1. "She must be the groupie." Riiight because my boyfriend is carrying the guitar? (FYI, I insisted on carrying the guitar case myself from then on) and 2. "Oh look, an Alanis Morsette cover artist." I've … [Read more...]
R&R
Down time. Rest. Relaxation. You should try it. *Breathe.* Maybe for most people, rest comes easily. In my case, I've hit the floor running since I was old enough to and I haven't looked back. Most of us are busy with our full time jobs that take up the daylight hours and when we aren't at work, we're tending to … [Read more...]
